Why Relationships Matter as a Sex Blogger and Writer

Kayla Lords

I am an erotic author, sex blogger, podcaster, freelance writer, an opinionated marketer, and a speaker with a focus on BDSM and D/s. Here at The Smutlancer, I help people who want to create content or products about sex get paid to do it. I'm sharing what I've learned as a freelancer and a sex blogger to build a career. You can find me online sharing my innermost sexual thoughts and experiences and helping kinksters have healthy BDSM relationships. I'm also a masochistic babygirl submissive with an amazing and sadistic Daddy Dom and business partner, John Brownstone.

5 Responses

  1. Aurora Glory says:

    This is just what I needed to hear today. After writing an opinion post and feeling anxious about it all day and deciding never to do it again. Exposing your true self is terrifying. Thank you for reminding me why it’s worth it.
    Aurora x

  2. I just finished my first erotic story that I was considering Including in #masterbationmonday (if I can figure out how), and have been a bit nervous about it. This post helped, thank you 🙂

    • Kayla Lords says:

      I’m glad this post could help!

      As for Masturbation Monday, go to http://maturbationmonday.kaylalords.com and find the most recent week’s prompt (currently we’re on week 175 with Elliott Henry as the prompt). Open the post, scroll to the bottom and look for a blue button. Click on that and add the direct URL of your blog post that’s been published (not your home page URL) and add your link. If you run into any problems, email me at kaylalords at gmail dot com and I’m happy to help.

  3. Indie says:

    Great advice Kayla makes me wish I had left a sentence in my Hair Trigger (2) post about how angry I am with my ex…
    I love your writing and the podcast, loving that you are writing about these sorts of things.

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