Dealing with Shitty Comments

When you put yourself out into the online world, shitty comments (sadly) will happen. Should they? Of course not. But will they? Eventually. So how do you deal with it? What do you do? Molly and I share our thoughts in this week’s episode.

In this episode:

  • This topic comes from a suggestion from someone in our Smutlancers Community.
  • Not all comments are the same.
  • Shitty comments are different from feedback and constructive criticism. Yes, sometimes criticism makes you feel bad but that doesn’t automatically make it a shitty one.
  • You get to determine how you handle comments on your own website/platform.
  • Take care of yourself first.
  • Engage in the comment if that feels right to you. But don’t be afraid to block, ignore, and/or delete comments, too.

Links from the episode:

My Comment Policy: I’m a Dictator (post by Girl on the Net)

Handling Criticism from Your Audience (blog post)

How to Handle the Mistakes You WILL Make as a Smutlancer (blog post)

The Smutlancers Community on Patreon

Follow The Smutlancer on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook

Follow Eroticon on Twitter and Instagram

Molly’s Daily Kiss

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Kayla Lords

I am an erotic author, sex blogger, podcaster, freelance writer, an opinionated marketer, and a speaker with a focus on BDSM and D/s. Here at The Smutlancer, I help people who want to create content or products about sex get paid to do it. I'm sharing what I've learned as a freelancer and a sex blogger to build a career. You can find me online sharing my innermost sexual thoughts and experiences and helping kinksters have healthy BDSM relationships. I'm also a masochistic babygirl submissive with an amazing and sadistic Daddy Dom and business partner, John Brownstone.

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