Dealing with Shitty Comments

When you put yourself out into the online world, shitty comments (sadly) will happen. Should they? Of course not. But will they? Eventually. So how do you deal with it? What do you do? Molly and I share our thoughts in this week’s episode.

In this episode:

  • This topic comes from a suggestion from someone in our Smutlancers Community.
  • Not all comments are the same.
  • Shitty comments are different from feedback and constructive criticism. Yes, sometimes criticism makes you feel bad but that doesn’t automatically make it a shitty one.
  • You get to determine how you handle comments on your own website/platform.
  • Take care of yourself first.
  • Engage in the comment if that feels right to you. But don’t be afraid to block, ignore, and/or delete comments, too.

Links from the episode:

My Comment Policy: I’m a Dictator (post by Girl on the Net)

Handling Criticism from Your Audience (blog post)

How to Handle the Mistakes You WILL Make as a Smutlancer (blog post)

The Smutlancers Community on Patreon

Follow The Smutlancer on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook

Follow Eroticon on Twitter and Instagram

Molly’s Daily Kiss

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Kayla Lords

Kayla Lords is a freelance sex writer, podcaster, blogger, all-around sex content creating human, and she really likes creating content. As a writer, she focuses on sex and kink primarily on BDSM and power exchange. She works with private clients to write their content and manage their social media, while also co-hosting two podcasts, running a YouTube channel, and managing multiple blogs. Let's just say, she stays busy and wants to keep it that way. Kayla is an international speaker and an award-winning sex blogger. She believes we are stronger together as a community than we are isolated and apart. We all deserve to get paid for the work we do, but until we understand our cumulative power, we'll all wonder if we're "the only one" doing this smutlancing thing.

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