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6 Ways to Stop Worrying About Being Wrong and Publish Your Content Anyway 2

Smutlancer Life

6 Ways to Stop Worrying About Being Wrong and Publish Your Content Anyway

When you write or talk about sex, sexuality, and gender, there’s almost always someone waiting in the wings to tell you how wrong you are. They’ll tell you your topic is disgusting or you’re using the wrong words. Maybe they’ll throw some social media hate your way, making it feel like the entire world thinks you suck. I wish I had a magic cure for this. It wouldn’t matter if you’re creating content about puppies, this can happen. Most of the people who this are trolls and a few are extremely passionate about the topic. They’ve just forgotten that INTERNET...

an alternative to call-out culture as a smutlancer 0

Smutlancer Life

An Alternative to Calling Out an Adult Company

I’ve said before that call-out culture (on any social media platform) isn’t my thing. My personality isn’t built for it, and from observation, it doesn’t work most of the time. Typically, several people yell (in all caps), feelings get hurt and tempers flare on both sides, and there is no dialogue. People dig their heels in because they think they’re right and/or they feel persecuted. Sides are taken, lines are drawn, and both sides go back to what they were doing in a few days but now with hard feelings and little willingness to work together or build an understanding...