Writing About Sex Isn’t Easy Money, No Matter What Anyone Says

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Kayla Lords

Kayla Lords is a freelance sex writer, podcaster, blogger, all-around sex content creating human, and she really likes creating content. As a writer, she focuses on sex and kink primarily on BDSM and power exchange. She works with private clients to write their content and manage their social media, while also co-hosting two podcasts, running a YouTube channel, and managing multiple blogs. Let's just say, she stays busy and wants to keep it that way. Kayla is an international speaker and an award-winning sex blogger. She believes we are stronger together as a community than we are isolated and apart. We all deserve to get paid for the work we do, but until we understand our cumulative power, we'll all wonder if we're "the only one" doing this smutlancing thing.

4 Responses

  1. Mischa Eliot says:

    Don’t forget the try/fail cycle. With everything you publish, stats are important. What worked, what didn’t work, what can you do better next time to bring in more views, more sales, more comments?

    • Kayla Lords says:

      True, and there’s an arc to it. You have to take a big picture approach to it as well – not everything you write will be a hit and not everything you publish will find an audience right away. You keep doing it anyway knowing that readers come in cycles – certain times of the year, only your die-hards are paying attention. Certain topics should still be written but only your most loyal people will read it. There’s a granular approach in the try/fail but you also need to step back and look at the overall picture of what you’re doing or trying to accomplish. Get too bogged down in the details and you might not write the thing that NEEDS to be written.

  2. Very informative Kayla. I feel like I shall need to revisit this a few times but it has got my little grey cells firing!

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