The Problem with Perfectionism

Kayla Lords

Kayla Lords is a freelance sex writer, podcaster, blogger, all-around sex content creating human, and she really likes creating content. As a writer, she focuses on sex and kink primarily on BDSM and power exchange. She works with private clients to write their content and manage their social media, while also co-hosting two podcasts, running a YouTube channel, and managing multiple blogs. Let's just say, she stays busy and wants to keep it that way. Kayla is an international speaker and an award-winning sex blogger. She believes we are stronger together as a community than we are isolated and apart. We all deserve to get paid for the work we do, but until we understand our cumulative power, we'll all wonder if we're "the only one" doing this smutlancing thing.

9 Responses

  1. SassyCat says:

    Sometimes I hear that “Carrie” soundtrack in my head too.
    Thanks so much for sharing this and thanks for linking up 😊

  2. Ugh…I can totally relate.

  3. Cara Thereon says:

    Perfectionist/anxiety solidarity. I feel this.

  4. May More says:

    Sorry I missed this when it went out – I have a daughter like this – oh my goodness it started so young. When she was at primary school she had to take a note pad to bed in case she needed to jot something down that she needed to remember. When she was doing her school exams at 16 she put a sign up on her wall that read “A grade B is not good enough” – she has improved where perfection is concerned but remains anxious – it is a bugger!

  5. I can totally relate. Thanks for sharing. Yes, indeed. Perfectionism is a problem. Its not easy having this issue. Because it will totally ruin your life. It will make you paralyze. But the good thing is, it is possible to overcome this. Yes! it is possible. Just allow yourself be human. Human beings are imperfect. There is beauty in imperfections.

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