The Big Fling

**Full disclosure, I onceworked as the editor-in-chief of The Big Fling.

“Here at The Big Fling, our mission is to fight toxic masculinity in dating, hookups, and relationships. We don’t care who you love or how you love, as long as it’s healthy, positive, and consensual.”


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Kayla Lords

Kayla Lords is a freelance sex writer, podcaster, blogger, all-around sex content creating human, and she really likes creating content. As a writer, she focuses on sex and kink primarily on BDSM and power exchange. She works with private clients to write their content and manage their social media, while also co-hosting two podcasts, running a YouTube channel, and managing multiple blogs. Let's just say, she stays busy and wants to keep it that way. Kayla is an international speaker and an award-winning sex blogger. She believes we are stronger together as a community than we are isolated and apart. We all deserve to get paid for the work we do, but until we understand our cumulative power, we'll all wonder if we're "the only one" doing this smutlancing thing.

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