The Big Fling

**Full disclosure, I am the editor-in-chief of The Big Fling and receive all pitches and work with contributors.

“Here at The Big Fling, our mission is to fight toxic masculinity in dating, hookups, and relationships. We don’t care who you love or how you love, as long as it’s healthy, positive, and consensual.”


Payment: Yes. $50 per published piece.

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Kayla Lords

I am an erotic author, sex blogger, podcaster, freelance writer, an opinionated marketer, and a speaker with a focus on BDSM and D/s. Here at The Smutlancer, I help people who want to create content or products about sex get paid to do it. I'm sharing what I've learned as a freelancer and a sex blogger to build a career. You can find me online sharing my innermost sexual thoughts and experiences and helping kinksters have healthy BDSM relationships. I'm also a masochistic babygirl submissive with an amazing and sadistic Daddy Dom and business partner, John Brownstone.

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