Spreading Smutty Love for #SOSS Volume 4 – Top 100 Sex Bloggers
I’m two weeks late to the party on sharing the Top 100 Sex Bloggers List of 2017 but as this list is meant to be useful until the 2018 list comes out, anytime is a good time. It’s the ultimate in Share Our Shit, isn’t it? I challenge you to look for a name you don’t know, click over, and if you like their work, share it. Now and going forward.
Yes, that’s my name in the number one spot, and if you’re not familiar with my sex blog, feel free to check it out. But let me draw your attention to 2 through 100 instead.
If you see your name, good for you! I hope next year you’re higher up on the list.
If you don’t see your name but wish you did, let this inspire your writing and website for the next year.
I don’t write to show up on these lists. Nor should you. Showing up on it is an honor, and raising my rank is a personal challenge.
I’m not competing with other sex bloggers (I see no reason for any of us to do that). The competition is with myself. Can I be better than before? Where can I improve? Am I doing my sex blogging best?
For those who view these lists as unfair, a little threatening, or disheartening, I’m sorry you feel that way. I fundamentally disagree but we’re not always going to agree, and that’s okay. I hope you keep writing for the love of expressing yourself and to reach whatever goals you’ve set for yourself.
To Molly Moore who kept this list going when it could have died and to Michael (aka @DomSigns), who supports and helps her make it all happen — thank you. You help make the sex blogging community better and more informed. I know this list is a labor of love but also a shit ton of work. You are seen and appreciated. XOXO
Top 100 Sex Bloggers 2017
I think once Kayla turns her mind to something she dedicates herself to it 110% and this year the result of that is that she has managed to secure herself the No. 1 spot on this list. Her writing is always excellent and her content is hugely varied, she writes fiction, personal essays and thought pieces, as well as advice and reviews. She is an amazing resource for anyone looking for content about D/s relationships and I think she is absolutely deserved winner of this year’s No.1 spot.
- Follow her on Twitter: @KaylaLords
Mrs Fever appeared at No.10 on last year’s list. She is an absolute wordsmith in my opinion. Her writing is intelligent, thought-provoking, sexy and passionate and I am constantly drawn back into her blog to get lost in her world of words.
- Follow her on Twitter: N/A
Kate has absolutely earned her place in the top ten this year in my opinion. She is a talented and exciting writer and her blog is well designed and structured and in my opinion she is absolutely brilliant at what she does.
- Follow her on Twitter: @girly_juice
This is a first since I have been doing the list; a blog going from the ‘new voices’ section straight into the top ten but Bibulousone has done exactly that. I find his writing utterly enthralling. He tackles the complexities of his life and relationship situation with a raw honesty that is both fascinating and addictive reading.
- Follow him on Twitter: @bibulousone
Rebel’s blog continues to be of a consistently high standard both in the content she produces and in the layout and design of her site. This year has been a tough year for her dealing with her Mother’s illness and passing but she is not one to shy away from writing about tricky difficult issues and the honesty she brings to her writing is something to be admired.
Follow her on Twitter: @Rebelsnotes
This was a new discovery for me on last year’s list and one I have continued to enjoy throughout the year. She is writer with a compelling style. She can make you laugh, cry and get turned on and sometimes that is all in one post.
- Follow her on Twitter: @notsosexintheci
Over the years Pandora Blake’s blog has changed and evolved alongside their own personal and professional evolution. As a result the content currently reflects their extensive work on fighting porn censorship in the UK and their blog is a hugely valuable resource for both those producing adult content and those consuming it not just in the UK but worldwide.
- Follow them on Twitter:@pandorablake
Damn can this woman write a short story! Her blog is a mixture of reviews, personal essays and fiction and it is all extremely well written but her story telling is some of the best around and why she has not published an anthology of sexy wicked stories is a mystery to me.
- Follow her on Twitter:@ella_scandal
Kendra is one of the blogs which I was reading even before I started blogging. In fact she is a very small group of bloggers who definitely had a role to play in inspiring me to start my own blog. Over the years her story has been complex, difficult and inspirational and she has shared it all on her blog in her perfectly candid style.
- Follow her on Twitter: @TBK365
And in at number 10 we have the awesome Suz. Her blog is a fabulous mix of well crafted sex toy reviews, thought pieces and personal essays that explore a large variety of sex related topics.
- Follow her on Twitter: @redhotsuz
100. YOU! The last spot is for the all the other awesome sex bloggers out there. It is just not possible to include everyone, I relied on the nominations to gather the list and I am sure there are people missing, but this place is for you because every single one of you counts and contributes towards this community.