Why Friendship is Important When You’re a Smutlancer SL006

Over the weekend I read a book called A Secret Sisterhood: The Literary Friendships of Jane Austen, Charlotte Bronte, George Eliot, and Virginia Woolf. While it was a fascinating look at a forgotten or ignored part of literary history, it also got me thinking about how important friendship is to the smutlancing life.

In this episode:

  • This week’s episode is sponsored by Blubrry.com.
  • We need friends as creative people.
  • Friends who are on a similar path and understand what we’re going through.
  • Friends to bounce ideas off of or to get a gut check from.
  • One or two is enough. It doesn’t have to be everyone.
  • Reach out to fellow creatives on social media – Twitter or wherever.
  • Not every interaction will turn you into besties but you might be surprised at who you connect with.
  • Going to events like Eroticon can help cement those friendships.
  • You won’t always agree with your friends, but you should feel free to express yourself.
  • Sometimes your friend will give you the courage to do something brave or will encourage you not to do something stupid.

Links from the show:

A Secret Sisterhood by Emily Midorikawa and Emma Claire Sweeney (affiliate link)

Eroticon 2018

Blubrry.com – use code KaylaLords to get one month free! (affiliate offer)

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Kayla Lords

Kayla Lords is a freelance sex writer, podcaster, blogger, all-around sex content creating human, and she really likes creating content. As a writer, she focuses on sex and kink primarily on BDSM and power exchange. She works with private clients to write their content and manage their social media, while also co-hosting two podcasts, running a YouTube channel, and managing multiple blogs. Let's just say, she stays busy and wants to keep it that way. Kayla is an international speaker and an award-winning sex blogger. She believes we are stronger together as a community than we are isolated and apart. We all deserve to get paid for the work we do, but until we understand our cumulative power, we'll all wonder if we're "the only one" doing this smutlancing thing.

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