No One Can Decide the Right Path For You

We’ve talked about defining success for ourselves and finding the right path in past episodes. It’s a topic that is never a one-and-done because as creators and people, we constantly evolve and change. In this episode, I let it get weird and share some of my own thoughts on making shifts, changing paths, and deciding which direction to follow. I share not because I have answers but to show that it’s a messy process.

In this episode:

  • Analysis paralysis is a thing.
  • I wish someone would give me a guidebook.
  • Only you can decide what path to be on, and there are no guarantees.
  • Give yourself an out — a way to go back, if that helps you move forward.
  • I’m stopping a project (announcement coming soon), and it’s giving me an identity crisis.
  • I know it’s the right decision when I feel a sense of relief, but that doesn’t mean it’s easy.

Links from the episode:

The Smutlancers Community on Patreon

Follow The Smutlancer on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook

Follow Eroticon on Twitter and Instagram

Molly’s Daily Kiss

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Kayla Lords

Kayla Lords is a freelance sex writer, podcaster, blogger, all-around sex content creating human, and she really likes creating content. As a writer, she focuses on sex and kink primarily on BDSM and power exchange. She works with private clients to write their content and manage their social media, while also co-hosting two podcasts, running a YouTube channel, and managing multiple blogs. Let's just say, she stays busy and wants to keep it that way. Kayla is an international speaker and an award-winning sex blogger. She believes we are stronger together as a community than we are isolated and apart. We all deserve to get paid for the work we do, but until we understand our cumulative power, we'll all wonder if we're "the only one" doing this smutlancing thing.

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