The Anatomy of a Good Blog Post

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“Good” is subjective. A good blog post even more so. Only one part of what makes a post work isn’t about subject matter or word choice but how the information is presented so that it can easily be read. You can craft the “perfect” blog post (based on the steps below) and if it’s not…

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Spreading Smutty Love Volume 5

share our shit saturday

I feel like such a slacker that it’s been so long since I participated in Share Our Shit Saturday (aka #SOSS), but also, I’m trying this radical new thing called Not Doing All the Things All at Once. So…yeah. Balance. Over the past couple of weeks, I’ve been collecting pieces I’ve seen around the web…

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Spreading Smutty Love for #SOSS Volume 4 – Top 100 Sex Bloggers

sharing Top Sex Blogs of 2017 for Share Our Shit Saturday

I’m two weeks late to the party on sharing the Top 100 Sex Bloggers List of 2017 but as this list is meant to be useful until the 2018 list comes out, anytime is a good time. It’s the ultimate in Share Our Shit, isn’t it? I challenge you to look for a name you…

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About that About Page

what you need to know when writing your about page

As the end of the year approaches, plenty of writers and bloggers (myself included) are planning for the coming year and looking around at their blog. If you’re like me, you might be thinking, “I need to clean this joint up!” Or maybe you’ve decided to take your blog or website in a new and…

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What Would You Do If Social Media Disappeared Tomorrow?

social media vs blog as a platform

Debates rage on social media, as they do, all the time. Some I ignore. But some make me think. Sometimes I think, “Can’t we all just get along?” And then sometimes I realize I have Something To Say. Lately, it’s been about voices and platforms and where sex bloggers are most effective or maybe even where…

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Spreading Smutty Love for #SOSS Volume 3

Share our shit saturday volume 3

It’s time for another week of spreading smutty love as it relates to the sex blogging and content creation life. Because I like this round-up (as opposed to what I do on KaylaLords.com or LovingBDSM.net) to focus on topics that matter to us as writers, finding posts is more of a challenge. Thankfully, I love…

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Sharing Our Shit for a Long Time: e[lust] 100

Photo courtesy of Wriggly Kitty Welcome to Elust 100– The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #101 Start with the rules,…

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6 Ways to Find a New Audience with Old Blog Posts

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In the early days of your blog, a new reader might be curious enough (or fall in love quickly enough) that they’re willing to comb through your archives. The longer you publish content, though, the less likely that is to happen. So today, after a year or two, or like some of us five plus…

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Do Sex Blogger Lists Really Matter?

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‘Tis the season – the sex blogging award season. Kinkly announced voting has opened for their annual Top Sex Blogging Superheroes list this week. At the same time, my good friend (and all around lovely human being) Molly Moore announced nominations are open for the Top 100 Sex Bloggers list. Both offer special prizes for the…

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Think of Your Sex Blog as Your Personal Sandbox

treat your sex blog like a personal sandbox

I once heard a personal website described as the hub of a wheel. All the spokes of the wheel were the ways people should be able to get back to your website. Social media, email newsletters, even writing for another website – it should all point (link) back to your blog or website. All were…

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