The Problem with Perfectionism

Kayla Lords

I am an erotic author, sex blogger, podcaster, freelance writer, an opinionated marketer, and a speaker with a focus on BDSM and D/s. Here at The Smutlancer, I help people who want to create content or products about sex get paid to do it. I'm sharing what I've learned as a freelancer and a sex blogger to build a career. You can find me online sharing my innermost sexual thoughts and experiences and helping kinksters have healthy BDSM relationships. I'm also a masochistic babygirl submissive with an amazing and sadistic Daddy Dom and business partner, John Brownstone.

9 Responses

  1. SassyCat says:

    Sometimes I hear that “Carrie” soundtrack in my head too.
    Thanks so much for sharing this and thanks for linking up 😊

  2. Ugh…I can totally relate.

  3. Cara Thereon says:

    Perfectionist/anxiety solidarity. I feel this.

  4. May More says:

    Sorry I missed this when it went out – I have a daughter like this – oh my goodness it started so young. When she was at primary school she had to take a note pad to bed in case she needed to jot something down that she needed to remember. When she was doing her school exams at 16 she put a sign up on her wall that read “A grade B is not good enough” – she has improved where perfection is concerned but remains anxious – it is a bugger!

  5. I can totally relate. Thanks for sharing. Yes, indeed. Perfectionism is a problem. Its not easy having this issue. Because it will totally ruin your life. It will make you paralyze. But the good thing is, it is possible to overcome this. Yes! it is possible. Just allow yourself be human. Human beings are imperfect. There is beauty in imperfections.

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