Do Sex Blogger Lists Really Matter?

Kayla Lords

I am an erotic author, sex blogger, podcaster, freelance writer, an opinionated marketer, and a speaker with a focus on BDSM and D/s. Here at The Smutlancer, I help people who want to create content or products about sex get paid to do it. I'm sharing what I've learned as a freelancer and a sex blogger to build a career. You can find me online sharing my innermost sexual thoughts and experiences and helping kinksters have healthy BDSM relationships. I'm also a masochistic babygirl submissive with an amazing and sadistic Daddy Dom and business partner, John Brownstone.

3 Responses

  1. Aurora Glory says:

    I used them to find some fantastic blogs last year, when my blog was a total baby, so I can definitely see the good side to them. I must admit I was feeling very anxious about it all, until I realised it gave me the chance to support all the bloggers I love and who work so hard. And then I got all excited Lol! After how supportive everyone was yesterday when I tweeted about the list, I don’t even mind if I’m not on it. They (and you) made me feel appreciated and valued, so I’m happy either way now!
    Aurora x

    • Kayla Lords says:

      I think being anxious about these lists is completely normal, and we all react in different ways to that feeling. But you’re the proof (and hopefully others have a similar experience) that reaching out and getting the feedback from people can be it’s own validation. When I start worrying about where I am on a list, I think to myself, “If this list didn’t exist, would I still blog? Would I still write?” The answer is of course I would. That’s the answer that matters most. As much as I appreciate these lists and have seen real-world gains from them, at the end of the day, they aren’t why I write.
      I think that gets forgotten during list-making season. 🙂

  2. Andy says:

    A sex blogger directory often includes connected services that can amplify your reach. I operate SexBlogToplist.com – but getting listed is just the beginning – yes, my list does send out hundreds of visitors to various sex blogs on a daily basis – but it also includes a popular feature called The Daily Feed – which is a real-time update of the latest articles from the blogs listed in my directory. The site also automatically shares the latest posts from the blogs listed in our directory on our Twitter feed. Best of all, we are growing at an incredible pace! So yes, directories do provide traffic – but more importantly, they generate targeted traffic.

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