Saying Yes Even When You Don’t Think You’re Qualified SL020

Once you begin to make money as a smutlancer, you’ll start to get offers of jobs that you’re not sure you’re qualified to do. Sometimes you won’t be, but most of the time, your concern will be fear or imposter syndrome. This week let’s talk about why you ought to say yes even when you’re scared you won’t be able to do the job.

In this episode:

  • Did the show sound weird in episode 19? Yeah, we had a mic problem that didn’t get discovered until Friday morning.
  • The more you put yourself out in the world as being for hire, the more opportunities you’ll get where you wonder if you’re really qualified to do the work.
  • Say yes to most of these opportunities.
  • You’re usually more capable than you realize.
  • Many of the things you think are difficult really aren’t.
  • Google is your friend.
  • Don’t accept any job where you honestly feel you’ll do an awful job and make a bad situation for the company, brand, or other person.

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Kayla Lords

Kayla Lords is a freelance sex writer, podcaster, blogger, all-around sex content creating human, and she really likes creating content. As a writer, she focuses on sex and kink primarily on BDSM and power exchange. She works with private clients to write their content and manage their social media, while also co-hosting two podcasts, running a YouTube channel, and managing multiple blogs. Let's just say, she stays busy and wants to keep it that way. Kayla is an international speaker and an award-winning sex blogger. She believes we are stronger together as a community than we are isolated and apart. We all deserve to get paid for the work we do, but until we understand our cumulative power, we'll all wonder if we're "the only one" doing this smutlancing thing.

2 Responses

  1. How fortuitous! This is exactly the episode I needed to hear tonight, and it has made me feel much calmer and more confident! Thanks, Kayla.

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