6 Questions to Ask Adult Companies

Kayla Lords

I am an erotic author, sex blogger, podcaster, freelance writer, an opinionated marketer, and a speaker with a focus on BDSM and D/s. Here at The Smutlancer, I help people who want to create content or products about sex get paid to do it. I'm sharing what I've learned as a freelancer and a sex blogger to build a career. You can find me online sharing my innermost sexual thoughts and experiences and helping kinksters have healthy BDSM relationships. I'm also a masochistic babygirl submissive with an amazing and sadistic Daddy Dom and business partner, John Brownstone.

2 Responses

  1. Aries Blake says:


    This is good information – thank you! I was contacted by a sex site who wanted to feature one of my posts in their newsletter and when I asked for a link to their newsletter so I could review their content before I agreed to participate, they couldn’t (or wouldn’t) send me a link. I think it’s important to make sure your “brand” fits their content before agreeing to partner. I’m still baffled they wouldn’t let me see their newsletter first, so I began to smell something fishy. Any thoughts on that?

    Aries Blake

    • Kayla Lords says:

      I agree with how you handled it. I don’t want to link to or be associated site that I don’t feel good about. And I’m always concerned when a brand/company won’t share an example or a link. It’s a red flag to me, and also an easy “No, I’m not doing business with you.”

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