How to Ask for Help or Advice

Girl on the Net

Girl on the Net (she/her) is a sex blogger and author who writes filth, feminism, and funny stuff over at GirlOnTheNet.com. She also makes audio porn – turning sexy stories into audio recordings to help make erotica more accessible (and also just because so many of us love a dirty bedtime story). She has been blogging for 9 years, has written two books, and is very keen to help other bloggers turn their sexy hobby into a day job just like she did. Hit her up at her website or on Patreon (https://www.patreon.com/girlonthenet) for more filth and fuckery.

2 Responses

  1. Quinn Rhodes says:

    To the surprise of absolutely no one, my reaction to reading this piece was ‘oh no, I’ve been really rude when asking people for help and not done it right!’ which, I think, says more about my anxiety than anything else. As I’m in the process of trying to ‘level up’ my smutlancing, I’m definitely asking for help more and also putting myself out there, which feels utterly fucking terrifying. I feel like I’m being ridiculous or entitled or downright annoying, and I’m definitely going to be re-reading this post to remind myself that it is ok to ask for help. (In fact, GOTN, I might be about to slide into your inbox with a truly absurd thing I want to do and would like your opinion on as someone who I know has Done The Thing…)

  2. Mary Wood says:

    What smart and specific advice. However, like everything that you write.

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