Deciding Whether to Hit Publish or Not SL011

Sometimes writing a blog or making a thing is easy. We almost feel a compulsion to do it or we’re “on brand” so of course we’ll put it out there. But what happens when you want to (or do) write or make a thing, but you wonder if you “should” publish it? This week I’m sharing three reasons why you should hit publish most of the time.

In this episode:

  • I’m going on a two week hiatus for Eroticon and travel so no new podcast until March 28.
  • The next episode should be (barring problems) the recording of the podcast panel discussion from Eroticon.
  • Only you can decide if you should or shouldn’t put your thoughts or product out into the world.
  • There are so many reasons we don’t publish: fear, worry, we think it isn’t our topic, people don’t want to know what we think, or that it’s already been said
  • (Some) Reasons not to publish: could give up anonymity, done in anger without thinking, or doesn’t feel right
  • Reasons to publish anyway: creates a connection with your audience, lets you say what you need to say so you don’t feel stifled, and keeps the content flowing 

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Kayla Lords

I am an erotic author, sex blogger, podcaster, freelance writer, an opinionated marketer, and a speaker with a focus on BDSM and D/s. Here at The Smutlancer, I help people who want to create content or products about sex get paid to do it. I'm sharing what I've learned as a freelancer and a sex blogger to build a career. You can find me online sharing my innermost sexual thoughts and experiences and helping kinksters have healthy BDSM relationships. I'm also a masochistic babygirl submissive with an amazing and sadistic Daddy Dom and business partner, John Brownstone.

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