Dealing With Your Own High Expectations

Kayla Lords

I am an erotic author, sex blogger, podcaster, freelance writer, an opinionated marketer, and a speaker with a focus on BDSM and D/s. Here at The Smutlancer, I help people who want to create content or products about sex get paid to do it. I'm sharing what I've learned as a freelancer and a sex blogger to build a career. You can find me online sharing my innermost sexual thoughts and experiences and helping kinksters have healthy BDSM relationships. I'm also a masochistic babygirl submissive with an amazing and sadistic Daddy Dom and business partner, John Brownstone.

4 Responses

  1. D Faust says:

    Exactly what I needed to read.
    I do have a hard time with the “will anyone care if it doesn’t get done” part because it often sends me into a spiral of “no one cares about my work at all” and ugh.
    This is really good advice tho, I will try to keep it in mind when I become my own worst boss.

    • Kayla Lords says:

      That is DEFINITELY the flip side of that particular question because imposter syndrome, fear, anxiety, pick a reason will keep you from creating content…so be careful when you ask yourself that question!

  2. This is so me. I have a daily priority list that I try to keep manageable, but even then, I don’t always get it done. It’s hard to let myself off the hook and not feel bad, especially when I see others seemingly doing it all. I’m terrible about comparing myself.

    Your points are a great reminder!

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

%d bloggers like this: