Author: Kayla Lords

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Dealing With Your Own High Expectations

For anyone else who berates yourself for not doing enough, for failing, for setting impossible goals you can never meet, maybe we didn’t fail and quite possibly we do exactly enough. And maybe the real problem is that we expect way too much of ourselves.

Smutlancer Etiquette: How to Court an Editor written by Jayne Renault 0

Smutlancer Etiquette: How to Court an Editor

Building a reputation and online visibility, and ultimately earning compensation for the work you do are arguably the most significant goals on your smutlancing journey. You may pitch and submit to publications and will work with professional editors and publishers.


Smutlancer Profile: Girl on the Net

Girl on the Net is the first smutlancer featured as part of the smutlancer profile series. She answered all of my invasive questions to share with you what she does and how she does it. Want to know what it means to be a smutlancer? Here’s how GOTN does it.

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What I’ve Learned After Publishing 2,759 Pieces of Content

As a sex blogger with four active websites, I create a lot of content — written, audio, and video. After all this time and thousands of pieces of content, I’m sharing what I’ve learned and (hopefully) showing that some things continue long after you reach a big number.

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4 Things I Do When Imposter Syndrome Strikes

Even after all these years as a freelancer and a sex blogger, imposter syndrome kicks my butt (though not as much as it once did). No method is perfect, and I’m not “cured” but if it can help someone else, here’s what I do when self-doubt kicks in.