This list originally lived on my personal blog and has been moved here because it’s a better fit. If it seems familiar, that’s why.

No matter what kind of sex writer you are, at some point, you’re going to need to use different online services and products to build your business.

The problem is that many mainstream (and large) companies aren’t friendly to those of us who openly talk about sex and sexuality. I’ve spent plenty of time frustrated because I’ve found what feels like the perfect company to do business with, only to find out that they perceive my brand of sex “pornographic” or “indecent.”

To keep you from having the same problems and to promote the businesses that are friendly to us, I’ve put together a list of adult-friendly businesses and websites. Note: Always read the Terms of Service for each site and follow their rules (i.e. marking your account as NSFW, not posting certain things, etc.). Companies and their TOS change all the time. Always check before you sign up.

This list is a living document: if you work with an online business that’s not on this list and want them to be included or if you are a sex-friendly business and want to be listed as a resource, fill out this form:

Add a Sex-Friendly Business to the List!

P.S. This list is only for tools that help writers, content creators, and those with sex and adult websites and businesses. If you are a hook-up site, dating platform, online community, or sex toy store, we love you but this isn’t a list for you to join.

Web hosting

Email Provider

Social Media and Sharing

Ecommerce

(For setting up your own store)

Crowdfunding

Payment Acceptance

Blogging and Podcasting Tools

Promotional Tools

Sex Education

  • OMGYes – researchers of women’s sexual pleasure;

Reminder, if you think a business (including your own) should be listed, fill out this form:

Add a Sex-Friendly Business to the List!